Kamis, 01 Desember 2011

Toward Victory in Ramadan

Toward Victory in Ramadan
Then your mom ... mom ... mom ... Later

Allaah says,
ووصينا الإنسان بوالديه إحسانا حملته أمه كرها ووضعته كرها وحمله وفصاله ثلاثون شهرا حتى إذا بلغ أشده وبلغ أربعين سنة قال رب أوزعني أن أشكر نعمتك التي أنعمت علي وعلى والدي وأن أعمل صالحا ترضاه وأصلح لي في ذريتي إني تبت إليك وإني من المسلمين
"We have enjoined on man to do good to parents, his father, his mother conceived him with difficulty, and gave birth to her with difficulty (too). Conceived him to his weaning is thirty months, so when he came of age and age up to forty years he prayed: "O my Lord, I am to be grateful ni'mat tunjukilah thou which thou hast given me and to my father and mother so that I can do righteous deeds, that you ridhai. Give me with kindness (giving good) to my descendants. Verily I repent to You and truly I am of those who have surrendered. "(Surat Al-Ahqaaf: 15)
Above paragraph will explain the rights of the mother towards her child. Know, that contain the lowest measure until delivery is 6 months (in most cases is 9 months 10 days), plus 2 years of nursing the child, so 30 months. So that not contrary to the letter Luqman verse 14 (See Tafsiir VII/280 ibni Kathir)
ووصينا الإنسان بوالديه حملته أمه وهنا على وهن وفصاله في عامين أن اشكر لي ولوالديك إلي المصير
"And We have enjoined on man (do good) to his two mother-father; his mother had conceived him in a weakened state that increase steadily, and weaning in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your fathers two mothers, only to your return unto me. "(Surat Luqman: 14)
In this verse is mentioned that the mother has three kinds of exhaustion, the first one is pregnant, later giving birth and the subsequent lactation. Because it is good to his mother three times greater than the father. As stated in a hadith,
عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال جاء رجل إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال: يا رسول الله, من أحق الناس بحسن صحابتي? قال أمك, قال ثم من? قال أمك, قال ثم من? قال أمك, قال ثم من, قال أبوك
From Abu Hurayrah radhiyallaahu 'anhu, young said, "Someone came to the Messenger of Allaah alaihi wasallam and said,' Messenger of Allah, to whom I have devoted the first time? 'The Prophet sal-Allaahu' alayhi wasallam said, 'Your mother!' And the person back asked, 'Then who?' The Prophet sal-Allaahu 'alayhi wasallam said,' Your mother! 'The man asked again,' Then who? 'He replied,' Your mother. 'The man asked again,' Then who else, 'The Prophet 'alaihi wasallam replied,' Then your father. '"(Narrated by Bukhari, no. 5971 and Muslim no. 2548)
Imam Al-Qurtubi explains, "hadith shows that love and affection of a mother, should be three times greater compared to a father. The Prophet sal-Allaahu 'alayhi wasallam said the mother said as many as three times, while the word father only once. If it is we understand, the other reality can reinforce that sense. Because of the difficulty dalammenghadapi pregnancy, ketikamelahirkan difficulties, and difficulties at the time of feeding and caring for children, only experienced by a mother. All three forms of honor was only owned by a mother, a father does not have it. (See Tafseer Al-Qurtubi X: 239. Iyadh al-Qadi said that mothers have a greater virtue than the father)
Similarly, Imam Adh-Dzahabi rahimahullaah, beliauberkata in his book Al-Kabaair,
Your mother has mengandungmu in her belly for nine months, as if nine years.
He struggled when had you that almost eliminate his life.
He has menyusuimu from the nipples, and she lose a sense of sleepiness due care.
She was washing kotoranmu with his left hand, he is more preferred than padadirinya yourself and food.
He made his lap as you swing.
He has given you all the goodness and if you're sick or complain of it looks great distress and grief so long and he spends the treasure to pay doctors who treat you.
If selected between life and death, then he will ask you to be the loudest.
How much good mothers, whereas you do not reply with good morals.
He always mendo'akanmu with Taufik, either secretly or overtly.
When your mother needs you at the time he was old and weak, you make him as valuable items not on your side.
You fill in a state she was hungry.
You have finished drinking in the state of her thirst.
You prefer to do good to your wife and child from the mother.
You forget all the good he had done.
It's hard on you nurture it when it was an easy affair.
You think your mother on your side and he's still short-term age.
You leave when he did not have a helper selainmu.
And God forbid you have to say 'ah' and God has a gentle reproach with reproach.
You will be tortured in the world with your children durhakanya to you.
God will reward in the Hereafter with Allah kept away from the Lord of aalamin.
(It will say to him),
ذلك بما قدمت يداك وأن الله ليس بظلام للعبيد
"This, is due to acts done by your hands before and indeed Allah is not the persecutor of His servants". (Surat al-Hajj: 10)
(Al-Kabaair things. 53-54, Maktabatush Shoffa, Dar Albaian)
Thus is explained by Imam Adh-Dzahabi about the magnitude of the services of a mother against child and explained that the services to the child's parents can not be calculated.
Well, we may not have the capacity to count one by one, the rights owned by a mother. Islam is only stressed to us the greatest possible honor, glorify and sanctify the position of the mother by doing the best things we can do, for the sake of happiness.
Examples of best man devoted to his mother
From Abi Burdah, he saw Ibn 'Umar and a Yemeni who was Tawaf around the Ka'bah while carrying his mother on his back. Yemen people were humming,
إني لها بعيرها المذلل - إن أذعرت ركابها لم أذعر
Indeed I was a mother who is very obedient steeds.
If a mount another run, then I would not run.
The man then asked Ibn 'Umar, "O Ibn' Umar, do I have to repay him?" Ibn 'Umar replied, "You do not repay him, although he setarik breath out when giving birth." (Adabul simplex no. 11; Shaykh Al Albani said that this hadeeth saheeh)
In a history explained:
From Ibn Abbas radi 'anhuma that someone came and said that I proposed marriage to her, but he was reluctant to marry me. And he groom one another and he accepted it. So I was jealous of him and then I killed him. Am I still able to repent? Ibn Abbas said: does your mother still alive? He answered: no. Ibn Abbas said: bertaubatlah to Allah 'Azza wa Jalla and nearness to Him you can. Atho 'ibn Yasar said: then I went to Ibn Abbas asked you why you ask about her mother's life? Then he said: 'I do not know the deeds of the most closer to Allah Ta'ala than filial to the mother'. (This Hadith also issued by Al Baihaqy in Syu'abul Faith (7313), and Sheikh Al Albany menshahihkannya, see As Shohihah (2799))
In the above mentioned hadith that do good to the mother is a very great service, even with devotion to the mother is expected to help one's repentance accepted the Almighty. As in the above history, someone who did a very great sin of killing, when he asked Ibn Abbas, if he can still repent, Ibn Abbas even asked him whether he has a mother, because according to him worship or to the mother is doing good deeds most beloved of God as a sin as killing is an abomination of God.
Do good to the mother is an extremely pious charity bermanfa'at to eliminate the sins. This means, devoted to the mother is the way to go to heaven.
Do not disobey my mother
In a hadith the Prophet sal-Allaahu 'alayhi wasallam said,
عن المغيرة بن شعبة قال: قال النبي صلى الله عليه و سلم: إن الله حرم عليكم عقوق الأمهات ووأد البنات ومنع وهات. وكره لكم قيل وقال وكثرة السؤال وإضاعة المال
"Verily, Allah forbid you do disobedience to your mothers, burying daughters alive, refused duty and demanding something other than they are entitled. God also hates if you menyerbarkan rumors (rumors), many ask, and a waste of money. "(Sahih Hadith, history of Bukhari, no. 1407; Muslim, no. 593, Al-Ash-Syamilah Maktabah)
Ibn Hajar gives the following explanation: "In this hadith mentioned 'attitude of disobedience' against mothers, because the act is easier to do against a mother. Therefore, the mother is a weak woman. In addition, this hadith also give emphasis, that it do good to take precedence than do good to a father, be it through a soft speech, or overflow of a deep love. "(See Fathul Baari V: 68)
Meanwhile, Imam Nawawi explains, "Here, mention the word 'disobedience' against mothers, because mothers who exceed the glory of the glory of a father." (See Sharh Muslim XII: 11)
Make Mom Laugh
جاء رجل إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال: جئت أبايعك على الهجرة, وتركت أبوي يبكيان, فقال: ((ارخع عليهما; فأضحكهما كما أبكيتهما))
"Someone came to the Prophet sal-Allaahu 'alaihi wa sallam and said," I'll berbai'at you to emigrate, and I left my parents in a state of crying. "Prophet sal-Allaahu' alaihi wa sallam said," Go back to your parents and make both of them laughing as you have made them cry. "(Saheeh: HR. Abu Dawood (no. 2528), An-Nasa-i (VII/143), Al-Bayhaqi (IX/26), and Al-Hakim (IV / 152))
Do not Make a Mother Angry
عن عبد الله بن عمر قال: رضا الرب في رضاالوالد, وسخط الرب في سخط الولد.
"From 'Abdullah bin' Umar, he said," Ridha pleased God depends on parents and the wrath of God depends on the parent's wrath. "(Adabul Mufrod no. 2. Shaykh Al-Albani said that this hadith is hasan when it comes to friends, but authentic if to the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam)
The content of the above hadith is the obligation of seeking the pleasure of both parents at once contained a ban on anything that could provoke their wrath.
If there is a child who is disobedient to his mother, then her mother is pray for evil, then the mother's prayer will be granted by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala. As in the saheeh hadeeth that the Prophet sal-Allaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said,
ثلاث دعوات مستجابات, لا شك فيهن: دعوة الوالد على ولده, ودعوة المسافر, ودعوة المظلوم.
"There are three prayers have been granted by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is no doubt about this prayer: (1) prayer of both parents towards their children, (2) the prayer of the traveler who is on the way- , (3) prayer of those who dizhalimin. "(Hasan: HR. Al-Bukhari in Al-Adabul simplex (no. 32, Al-Adabil 481/Shahiih simplex (no. 24, 372))
If a mother is pleased with his son, and do'anya accompany every step of her child, surely grace, Taufik and help of God will always accompany it. Conversely, if a mother's heart hurt, and he complained to God, condemned his son. Sooner or later, the child would be exposed to the prayer of his mother. Wal iyyadzubillaah ..
My sister ... do not let your mother come out of an oral prayer for you but kindness and good pleasure. Because God hears the prayers of a mother and granted it. And nearness to us in the mother, berbaktilah, while there is still time ...
والله الموفق إلى أقوم الطريق-

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